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What Is Decolonization Anyway?
“Decolonization” is a word we hear more and more. But what does it actually mean, and what does it have to do with therapy? Let’s break it down.
Maitreyi Mondal
2 hours ago2 min read


Being Heard Helps You Hear Yourself
The best conversations act like a portal, helping us find thoughts and parts of ourselves we couldn’t reach alone. Words make our experiences real Some of what we feel has never been said out loud. It sits inside us as a heaviness, a knot, or a quiet ache. Deep conversations help us find words for these lived experiences. And when we name something, it becomes more real. It becomes valid. What we felt alone suddenly has shape, and we can begin to understand it. Sometime
Maitreyi Mondal
Oct 282 min read


The Grief of Living with a Chronic Illness
When most of us picture grief, we picture a moment, an incident or a tangible loss. We picture a funeral, tears and goodbyes. But there is a kind of grief that doesn’t announce itself that way. It is invisible, comes in waves and quietly settles in over the years. It is the silent grief that comes with living a life with chronic illness. This loss is not a single loss. This kind of loss means losing things repeatedly and often invisibly. It is the loss of the energy you used
Maitreyi Mondal
Aug 182 min read


Self-Compassion and Rest: Unlearning Survival Mindsets That Lead to Burnout
Living in the In-Between Many of us find ourselves living in a quiet conundrum. Caught between what we were taught and what we are beginning to realize we need. There is often a deep tension between honouring where we come from and acknowledging how exhausted we feel now. Inherited Survival Wisdom For many people of colour, our histories are shaped by oppression, instability, and poverty. The messages passed down were not accidental, they were protective. Keep going. Work har
Maitreyi Mondal
Apr 272 min read


Embracing Imperfection: A Journey Towards Balance and Self-Compassion
Perfectionism often doesn’t feel like wanting things to be perfect. It feels like never being allowed to stop.
Maitreyi Mondal
Jan 293 min read


Why Resilience Shouldn't Be Our Only Choice
Trust Yourself: If something feels off, trust your instincts. You know your body better than anyone else.
Maitreyi Mondal
Jun 11, 20252 min read


The Grief of Immigration: Understanding the Hidden Costs
The grief is multilayered. While friends and family back home celebrate traditions in vibrant color, we grapple with the slow erosion of our identities.
Maitreyi Mondal
May 10, 20253 min read


The Quiet Battle: Undiagnosed ADHD, Self-Esteem, and the Stories We Tell Ourselves
At first, you think, Maybe I’m just lazy. But as the years go by, that thought grows into something deeper: I’m not good enough. I’ll never
Maitreyi Mondal
Nov 26, 20242 min read


How to Find the Right Counsellor: Key Tips for Building a Supportive Therapeutic Relationship
Finding the right counsellor is about more than skills and experience—it's about building a trusting, supportive therapeutic relationship.
Maitreyi Mondal
Nov 9, 20242 min read


The Power of Non-Directive Therapy: Trusting the Therapeutic Journey
The Power of Non-Directive Therapy: Trusting the Therapeutic Journey
Maitreyi Mondal
Nov 9, 20241 min read


Navigating Medical Gaslighting: Trusting Your Body and Voice
Trust Yourself: If something feels off, trust your instincts. You know your body better than anyone else.
Maitreyi Mondal
Oct 18, 20243 min read


My Personal Journey with Chronic Pain
Living with chronic pain also involves a lot of grief. Many of us are grieving the loss of our lives as they once were—grieving the loss...
Maitreyi Mondal
Oct 6, 20244 min read


Living with an Invisible Chronic Illness
Self-compassion acts as a powerful antidote to shame, enabling us to treat ourselves with the same kindness and understanding that we readily extend to others Living with an invisible chronic illness can feel like navigating a maze in the dark. The challenges are real and persistent, yet often remain unseen and misunderstood by others. The journey is fraught with fluctuating symptoms and the emotional toll of feeling isolated or invalidated. Despite these difficulties, thrivi
Maitreyi Mondal
Aug 4, 20243 min read


Adult ADHD
“Having a race car brain with bicycle brakes” - Edward M. Hallowell Adults with ADHD should be viewed through a much more nuanced lens than the oversimplified explanations often found online. ADHD is a complex and multifaceted condition, characterized by paradoxes and potential risks, but also by unique advantages. It is not merely a disorder or an asset but rather a distinct way of experiencing and interacting with the world. ADHD encompasses a range of traits that define a
Maitreyi Mondal
Aug 4, 20242 min read
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